Theguardian iconTheguardianJun 30, 2026 ~2 min source read

It’s a love story – or is it? The surprising conflict and chaos in Taylor Swift’s songs about commitment

A pop superstar widely perceived as a romantic has in fact mostly written love songs troubled by strife, ghosts and delusion. Ahead of her wedding, we strip away the gossip to see what Swift-as-songwriter has spent 20 years telling us.

It’s a love story – or is it? The surprising conflict and chaos in Taylor Swift’s songs about commitment

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A pop superstar widely perceived as a romantic has in fact mostly written love songs troubled by strife, ghosts and delusion.

Ahead of her wedding, we strip away the gossip to see what Swift-as-songwriter has spent 20 years telling us.

Like many women of her generation, Swift has had a complicated relationship with all that marriage implies, at least in how she's written about it.

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A pop superstar widely perceived as a romantic has in fact mostly written love songs troubled by strife, ghosts and delusion. Ahead of her wedding, we strip away the gossip to see what Swift-as-songwriter has spent 20 years telling us. Like many women of her generation, Swift has had a complicated relationship with all that marriage implies, at least in how she's written about it.

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When she was 19 and already had her second album under her belt, Taylor Swift made a point of telling a would-be beau he was all wrong for her: "I'm not your princess, this ain't our fairytale … It's too late for you and your white horse to catch me now," she sang in her 2008 song White Horse. "He wanted a bride / I was making my own name," she sang on Midnight Rain.

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