# What is a Tikkie?
Tikkie is an online system widely used in the Netherlands for sending payment requests. You enter the owed amount, add a short note explaining what it's for, and share the generated payment link with people — typically over WhatsApp.
# Why it's so common
The app matches a common Dutch habit: splitting bills and keeping personal accounts square. Because Tikkie has no lower limit on requested amounts, people send requests for very small sums like coffee, a share of dinner ingredients, or even a pack of chips. That feature makes it convenient for anyone who wants every euro accounted for.
# Typical scenarios you'll encounter
- After a shared home-cooked dinner: A host might send a Tikkie for half the cost of ingredients and drinks.
- Group outings: Friends split small purchases and use Tikkie to settle individual shares quickly.
- Shared household supplies: Among flatmates, requests for items like soap or toilet paper are possible, though social norms vary.
# Why it can feel awkward
Receiving a Tikkie as a guest — for example, after a dinner someone cooked for you — can feel surprising or impolite if you expected the host to cover the meal. The combination of small amounts and direct requests removes ambiguity about who owes what, which some people appreciate and others find blunt.
# Practical etiquette guidance
- Consider context before sending: Casual group splits at cafés or among roommates are common grounds for Tikkie requests. Asking a guest to pay for part of a hosted meal is more sensitive.
- Use clear notes: A short explanation of what the request covers helps avoid confusion.
- When in doubt, discuss first: If you think a request could offend the other person, mention it in conversation rather than sending an unexpected payment link.
# For newcomers to the Netherlands
Tikkie will become part of daily life. Accepting and sending Tikkies is a normal way to split costs here. If you'd prefer not to receive small requests, say so to friends and flatmates to set expectations.
# Bottom line
Tikkie makes splitting tiny amounts frictionless because the app imposes no minimum. That feature aligns with local habits of precise cost-sharing, but it also creates social friction when used in situations where people expect generosity or hospitality instead of itemised settlement.