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WARNING, WARNING, WARNING — Those ‘Red Flags’ and what they are, or YOUR wise INTUITION – trust what YOU are feeling.

WARNING, WARNING, WARNING — Those 'Red Flags' and what they are, or YOUR wise INTUITION – trust what YOU are feeling. A Narcissist INTENTIONALLY poisons your mind, your heart, your soul, AND your life!

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WARNING, WARNING, WARNING — Those 'Red Flags' and what they are, or YOUR wise INTUITION – trust what YOU are feeling.

A Narcissist INTENTIONALLY poisons your mind, your heart, your soul, AND your life!

They ARE emotional/psychological abusers and terrorize the lives of people that have ANY connection with them!

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WARNING, WARNING, WARNING — Those 'Red Flags' and what they are, or YOUR wise INTUITION – trust what YOU are feeling. A Narcissist INTENTIONALLY poisons your mind, your heart, your soul, AND your life! They ARE emotional/psychological abusers and terrorize the lives of people that have ANY connection with them!

How it works

  • That struggle in our mind is our intuition or those RED FLAGS that we are ignoring and instead we are trying to work through the nonsense.
  • The struggle to get this person to care or love and accept you is not working so you employ all kinds of tactics to try harder but to no avail.
  • TRUST YOUR INTUITION ALWAYS – and follow through with keeping your distance until you are sure about what has you concerned – it is worth it because YOU are worth it!
  • We reflect on it, hold onto it, nurture it, and try to bring it back and make the relationship work and make our Narcissist happy by working harder at the relationship – but in reality, it is blinding us to...
  • After Narcissistic Abuse From my Book – Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist!

What to take from it

Anytime a Narcissist makes it easier or harder for YOU to make a decision or even do something they are really manipulating you because they have some sort of agenda in mind! There are never any REAL concerns surrounding you and I – there are only opportunities because we are 'utilitarian' or not individuals in the mind of a Narcissist – so everything they act on benefits THEM and NOT us. EVEN a simple hello or small gesture can open the door to MORE of their manipulation and ABUSE because there is always an agenda with any connection, they make with us or anybody!

Example or evidence

  • We constantly struggle with the vision of that amazing connection in the back of our mind (the one that we were CONNED into believing).
  • Their WORDS are their most used and dangerous weapons that manipulate us into a place of despair so with that in mind knowledge and education are imperative to moving forward to recovery.
  • So, what are 'RED FLAGS?' The very things that confuse you and spark your intuition that something is not quite right!
  • While you keep trying to hang onto this relationship you are only burying yourself deeper and deeper into the darkness and the void that defines a Narcissist.

Details worth keeping

– After Narcissistic Abuse Skip to navigation Skip to main content Skip to primary sidebar Skip to secondary sidebar Skip to footer After Narcissistic Abuse There is Light, Life & Love Home About ANA Darkness 7 Deadly Sins of Narcissism Charming Social Mask Diagnosis: NPD Psychological and Emotional Invalidation. It is this daily struggle that is so unfulfilling and damaging, as well as makes you feel so unhappy and worthless. Beyond that there is going to be a huge eye opener with the full devaluation this creature is going to throw at you when your time is up with them as supply.

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