How to Accept a Compliment Without Deflecting It
Before the compliment has fully landed, you answer, "It was nothing." Your partner says you look good. A friend praises something you made, and you immediately list the parts that went wrong.

Before the compliment has fully landed, you answer, "It was nothing." Your partner says you look good. A friend praises something you made, and you immediately list the parts that went wrong.

Before the compliment has fully landed, you answer, "It was nothing." Your partner says you look good.
A friend praises something you made, and you immediately list the parts that went wrong.
— Someone tells you that you handled a difficult meeting well.
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Before the compliment has fully landed, you answer, "It was nothing." Your partner says you look good. A friend praises something you made, and you immediately list the parts that went wrong. — Someone tells you that you handled a difficult meeting well.
— Someone tells you that you handled a difficult meeting well. You point out that the lighting is flattering.
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