Greaterkashmir iconGreaterkashmirSep 16, 2026 ~1 min source read

Moul Mouj Health Corner

Dementia is more concerning when memory problems interfere with everyday life—such as managing money, medicines, cooking, familiar routes, or conversations. Reassure her rather than repeatedly saying, "I already told you." Answer calmly, use reminders or written notes, and look for triggers such as anxiety, pain, hunger, or fatigue.

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Dementia is more concerning when memory problems interfere with everyday life—such as managing money, medicines, cooking, familiar routes, or conversations.

Reassure her rather than repeatedly saying, "I already told you." Answer calmly, use reminders or written notes, and look for triggers such as anxiety, pain, hunger, or fatigue.

My father is 79 and has started getting lost on roads he has known for years.

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Dementia is more concerning when memory problems interfere with everyday life—such as managing money, medicines, cooking, familiar routes, or conversations. Reassure her rather than repeatedly saying, "I already told you." Answer calmly, use reminders or written notes, and look for triggers such as anxiety, pain, hunger, or fatigue. My father is 79 and has started getting lost on roads he has known for years.

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  • Until then, consider practical safety measures and avoid allowing him to travel alone if there is a significant risk of getting lost.
  • Social withdrawal may be part of dementia, but loneliness can worsen wellbeing and may contribute to cognitive decline.
  • Gentle conversation, familiar music, family visits, simple activities and short outings—adapted to her ability—can help.
  • Q: I am 77 and worried about dementia because my memory is not what it used to be.

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Should we leave her alone because she prefers it? Risk cannot be eliminated, but it can be reduced.

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I sometimes forget names but remember them later. Occasional forgetfulness can occur with normal ageing. Persistent or worsening changes deserve assessment.

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