Thepoke iconThepokeSep 21, 2026 ~4 min source read

19 times parents were right: Reddit users admit what they ignored and later learned was true

A roundup of responses from an AskUK thread where people list parental warnings they dismissed when young but now accept — from money habits and posture to how quickly time moves.

‘What’s something your parents told you when you were younger that you brushed off as nonsense?’ – 19 ways your folks were 100% correct

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Common parental lessons that age well: live within your means, plan ahead, and beware that time feels faster as you get older.

Many tips are practical, everyday habits (posture, not picking scabs, finishing tasks) that produce cumulative effects over years.

The thread mixes pragmatic advice (budgeting, holiday planning) with small social truths (youthful days are often the easiest).

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'What's something your parents told you when you were younger that you brushed off as nonsense?'. Updated September 21st, 2026 Share Tweet Flipboard Add as preferred source on Google Add as preferred source on Google " alt=" "> --> The arrogance of youth, eh? We've all been there, thinking we know best despite our incredibly limited life experience, and we all realise our folly when we get older.

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  • 'My Dad used to tell me all the time that the nights out with friends, staying up late and easily working with a hangover would all die out and life would become much slower and boring.
  • I used to think this was nonsense, however it seems like Christmas was last month, not in just over 3 months time!' – CD696969X 5.
  • When I was younger and very bookish, I'd think wow there's no way I'd never finish a book as I'd just find time somehow.
  • Always 'yeah Dad, yeah yeah yeah' but now I swear by it and I see lots of people (through my work) who earn an obscene amount of money, but live wayyyy out of their means, and they have fuck all left at the...
  • Over on the AskUK subreddit, PaddedValls posted their thoughts on the matter… 'What's something your parents tried to tell you when you were younger, that you brushed off as nonsense, but they were totally...

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At the time (late teens) I just thought that that's what happened to him and wouldn't happen to me. 'Well here I am, 36 years old, more excited about a quiet weekend of rest and the thought of a night out has me exhausted before it's even begun.' Yep, we're all well acquainted with that scenario. Lots of other people chimed in with the ways they'd come to revere the wisdom of their elders, like these… 1.

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  • 'Turns out doing that actually makes a holiday way more seamless and you can focus on actually enjoying the holiday totally stress free.' – Key_Cell7071 3.
  • All kids (including early 20s) look the same when you're older." Used to think this was ridiculous.
  • 'When my Mum and Dad had no clue about what songs were in the charts and who the artists were, and I thought 'I'll never be like that'.
  • 'Every time I done something stupid and hurt myself like falling out of a tree, my nan will tell me I would feel that when I get older.

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It always infuriated me that they would spend so long on the nitty gritty like whether there would be enough wardrobe space in the hotel for all the luggage, the location of the rear seat air vent in the rental car or which three restaurants would be the best to go to on the fourth night. 'Aye, she was totally right.' – Sad-Insurance1313 4. 'Not finishing a book due to being too busy or not remembering things.

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