Stuff 134: Caught
A fellow Femulate reader, Tia, wrote to suggest that some crossdressers secretly want to get caught. It seems to me that most of us go to great lengths to avoid getting caught.
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A fellow Femulate reader, Tia, wrote to suggest that some crossdressers secretly want to get caught.
It seems to me that most of us go to great lengths to avoid getting caught.
The more I thought about her proposition, the more it seemed like a good subject for Stuff.
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A fellow Femulate reader, Tia, wrote to suggest that some crossdressers secretly want to get caught. It seems to me that most of us go to great lengths to avoid getting caught. The more I thought about her proposition, the more it seemed like a good subject for Stuff.
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- Please understand that I have never tried to get caught, so these are simply my musings.
- Forcing "The Talk" I wonder whether those who secretly want to get caught see it as a way to finally broach the subject with their friends or perhaps their significant other.
- If you are in the closet but wish you could talk about your crossdressing with someone, finding the right time to bring it up can certainly be difficult.
- I'm not sure getting caught is a good way to introduce the subject, though.
- It seems to me that you would be starting off on the wrong foot—or stiletto.
What to take from it
My advice, for whatever it's worth, is not to use this method to initiate "the talk." Instead, find a quiet time when it's just the two of you and begin a general conversation to get the words...
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Maybe some people need that extra push to start the conversation.
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