# Overview Ginny and Gordon held a black‑tie wedding at the Country Club of Detroit, the same place where they had their first date. They asked planner and designer A Day In May Design to realize a cozy, Nancy Meyers–inspired aesthetic that balanced personal history with formal evening style. Photographer Liz Banfield captured the day.
# Setting and design The ceremony and reception centered on the Country Club's clubhouse and golf-course views. For the reception, the team installed a sailcloth tent positioned to catch sunset light, creating a warm, inviting glow. The design palette leaned on raspberry and moss tones. Hand‑blocked linens and layered patterned textures gave tables a relaxed, lived‑in feeling while keeping the black‑tie formality.
Florals by Studio Terrain referenced English countryside gardens: lush greens combined with deeper pinks and raspberries. The floral direction matched the late‑September timing, bridging summer and fall. A Day In May framed the overall vibe as playful, elegant, and true to the couple's shared life.
# Personal details and traditions Several elements tied back to the couple's history. The venue choice honored family memories and the pair's first date. Gordon's long‑standing calla lily motif — a tradition that began in high school — reappeared on invitations and a custom dance‑floor wrap designed by Lucy Barfield Creative.
The proposal happened at Bürgenstock Resort in Switzerland, where Gordon proposed inside a cave overlooking Lake Lucerne during a staged property tour. That story informed how the weekend balanced surprise and intimacy.
# Fashion and jewelry The bride wore a Mark Ingram Atelier strapless faille ball gown with an elongated drop waist, tailored bows on the bodice, and a cathedral-length train with covered buttons. She paired the gown with a simple satin‑trim veil and tulle opera gloves for old‑school drama.
For the after‑party, she changed into the exact bandage BCBG homecoming dress she wore with Gordon in 2013 — a deliberate full‑circle nod to their relationship.
# Music and moments
# Vendors highlighted
- Photography: Liz Banfield (Little Black Book member)
- Planner/Designer: A Day In May Design
- Florals: Studio Terrain
- Creative direction/calligraphy/stationery: Lucy Barfield Creative
- Music: Jordan Kahn Orchestra
- Bridal gown: Mark Ingram Atelier
# Why it mattered to the couple The couple prioritized honoring family history and creating a weekend that felt like their everyday life elevated for a black‑tie celebration. The design choices — layered linens, English‑inspired florals, heirloom jewelry, and a historic venue — were all selected to make the day feel familiar, elegant, and personally meaningful.