Queerty iconQueertySep 28, 2026 ~6 min source read

“Girl, no thank you”: Ellie Goulding publicly rebukes anti‑trans fan on X

Ellie Goulding responded to a fan’s backhanded, anti‑trans compliment on X by telling them the fandom won’t tolerate anti‑LGBTQ+ sentiment and calling the fan out by name.

“Girl, no thank you”: Ellie Goulding shuts down transphobes in the comments

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Ellie Goulding directly replied on X to a fan who posted a transphobic backhanded compliment, writing: “Girl, no thank you. We don’t tolerate any anti LGBTQ+ in the fandom. I know you are better than this.”

The original fan post was deleted or the account was set to private after Goulding’s reply. Media reports say Goulding’s response has attracted significant attention online.

Goulding’s stance aligns with past public positions on political and social matters, and follows her recent album cycle, during which she embraced more feminine aesthetics.

What happened

A user on X (formerly Twitter) wrote a backhanded compliment about Ellie Goulding's recent, more feminine outfits, implying those looks were preferable to "trans" looks. The post was presented as praise for Goulding's style but carried an explicitly anti‑trans sentiment. Goulding replied on X with a direct rebuke: "Girl, no thank you. We don't tolerate any anti LGBTQ+ in the fandom. I know you are better than this." The original post was later deleted or the account made private.

Goulding's reply and immediate fallout

Fan and media reaction

Supporters praised Goulding for confronting the user and reinforcing inclusive expectations for the fandom. Social posts framed the moment as a straightforward demonstration of a celebrity telling fans that bigotry is unacceptable. Some accounts contrasted Goulding's stance with other recent controversies involving artists who faced criticism for not defending collaborators or for appearing less vocal on human rights issues.

Goulding's recent album cycle, for I Know Too Much, included a more overtly feminine aesthetic, which set the scene for a fan comment praising that look while denigrating other gender expressions. That aesthetic shift appears to have prompted the original user's comparison.

Why it matters

The exchange matters because it demonstrates an artist actively moderating the tone of their fan community rather than allowing prejudice to persist unchallenged. Media coverage treated the reply as an example to other public figures: when celebrities name and reject bigotry in their spaces, it can shift the behavior of followers and set clearer community standards.

Short timeline

  • Fan posts a backhanded compliment on X that includes anti‑trans language.
  • Goulding replies: "Girl, no thank you. We don't tolerate any anti LGBTQ+ in the fandom. I know you are better than this."
  • The original account goes private or removes the post.

Takeaway

Ellie Goulding used a single public reply to set an explicit boundary for her fandom: anti‑LGBTQ+ sentiment will not be accepted. The response drew wide attention and was positioned in media coverage as consistent with her previous willingness to speak on social and political issues.

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