The useful part
Having arrived in Nepal three days earlier, I was getting familiar with monsoon season's weather pattern: each oppressively humid day gave way to a fleeting but intense afternoon shower, so timing-wise, this storm was typical. I was on the last bus to Dhamma Shringa, a Vipassana Meditation Center on the northern edge of the Kathmandu Valley, where I'd soon be participating in a silent, ten-day meditation course. No one I knew meditated, I didn't grow up around yogis, and if my grandfather was aware of the amount of time I've spent barefoot in public, he'd probably want to die all over again.
How it works
- In my mid-20's, however, I began facing bouts of anxiety and depression that had previously been unfamiliar to me.
- For some reason that still eludes me, I thought meditation might help, and one afternoon, I downloaded Headspace and began practicing for ten minutes before work each morning.
- Even though I could tell early on in the process that meditation was working, I still didn't plan on telling anyone I meditated.
- Evan, however, was not much of a public speaker, so I offered to speak alongside him: he would offer resources for anyone struggling with mental health, and I would present Headspace as a tool for managing...
What to take from it
On the afternoon of Day 5, however, his meditation cushion—three back to the left of my own—was removed by the volunteers and placed back in storage. By the second week, the practice was no longer an obligation. Growing up, I never saw my grandfather in a pair of shorts: he exclusively wore sweaters, button-ups, and pressed slacks, only ever compromising with a golf shirt at my sister's August birthday parties.
Example or evidence
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- I also didn't plan on teaching meditation, or teaching teachers to teach meditation—but in hindsight, the path seems to take you where it takes you.
- Going Public After graduating college in 2010, I was hired as a boarding faculty member at Wilbraham & Monson Academy, where I taught English for fourteen years.
- In 2018, two of the school's young alumni died by suicide, one of whom had previously been my advisee.
Details worth keeping
Someone smarter than me might have taken this as a sign. To this day, there is no evidence that he actually had knees. Three or four days into this new morning routine, I was on the phone with my dad and told him, "I'm going to try this meditation thing, but I don't want it to change who I am." Two years later, he was driving me to JFK for a flight to Nepal, so I could take part in a silent meditation retreat.
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